bihetslut:

Before you become a parent do your future kids a favour and figure out what your automatic first response is to being annoyed or frustrated (because it will happen) and if it’s to get angry then you need to work on that. Kids can be annoying. They like loud noises and repetition and jumping around and being silly and don’t really understand social cues when they’re starting to wear on you.

Like obviously no one will ever be perfect. But if your immediate response to a grown adult annoying you is to snap back at them you’ve got to fix that before you hurt your kids with those responses.